Just One Warning

What happens when you turn eighty years old and find yourself alone?

It suddenly dawns on you that you treated people poorly your whole life. And now when you could use a good friend to talk to, a great love to depend on, a grandchild to share joy in, a purpose to awake every morning for and something that could bring joy to others, you find your health failing, your spouse gone, your friends who've left you behind and grandchldren you don't see anymore. You have no purpose but to get out of bed and hope - no, pray - that someone comes by today to share a few words of conversation.

Your only joys are the distant and seldom happy memories of the past and the hope that maybe tomorrow, maybe, someone will want to share a little time with you.

What you do in this very moment can impact your life decades down the road. Be gentle. Be caring. Be the friend you would want to have if it were you. Do something nice for others without the expectation of something in return.

If someone owes you a favor, you probably will never collect. People will never want to share your company out of obligation.

Every action today has a consequence tomorrow. Choose wisely. Life is not a run-through. It is a once-only performance worthy of Greatness.

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Kevin Burns - Corporate Attitude/Culture Strategist
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Sorry Attitude

Question: Do you think apologies are required in the workplace when the situation warrants?

Forgive me for my answer here ;-)

Apologies are not "required" in the workplace nor anywhere else for that matter. The trick here is to never put yourself in a position where you would ever have to apologize. In other words, don't be selfish, arrogant, hurtful, spiteful, mean, uncaring, unsympathetic or unfeeling and you should never have to apologize. Simple huh?

Or, you can think of it the other way: be selfless, humble, giving, grateful, caring, sympathetic and empathetic and you will never place yourself in a situation where you would ever have to apologize. Sometimes though, people need to hear the truth. If the spirit for being blunt and direct is to truly improve a situation, you should never have to apologize for that either.

ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT: No one should ever have to apologize for being decent and kind. Stop thinking of work as a place for the ruthless. That's ridiculous. If your co-workers or bosses aren't decent, they aren't worth following. And don't feel that you have to apologize if they get knocked off of their high horses. They probably had it coming.

Oh, and don't apologize to people who seem to be offended by every little thing. They're just seeking attention and looking for some way to elevate themselves by making you feel small. What you said likely didn't really offend them anyway. They just want to draw attention to themselves. Overplaying the "offended" card is selfish and hurtful. That deserves an apology.